Before I share anything, there are 3 questions that are always on my mind:

1. Are you really listening? Or are you just hearing to entertain/judge/reply. Because sometimes, silence can be the best reply. Oh wait, perhaps you are just waiting for the moment I reveal something which can bring the topic back to yourself. If yes, just go on about yourself, I'll be more interested in that.
2. Do you really care about it?
2. If yes, how much do you really care? Like really, care.

Sometimes, it seems like there is no such thing as not even bothering to try because there is a lack of common topic. Its about the extra effort you are willing to go that touches people. No point in saying how you feel guilty for drifting apart on one end and yet, refusing to do anything on the either end because its not within your comfort zone. If they are interested, THEY should take the first move. Well, I guess it really boils down to how low you are willing to put yourself to keep the relationship going. Making the first move doesn't necessary mean that you are the needy one, it means that you treasure it a little more than the other party. All these boils down to a matter of priority. How much do you still want the relationship?

But again, what little pieces do we have to become make others whole? Controversial much, but I really don't know anymore.

I guess those who cares will reciprocate your effort, and for those who aren't interested, as much as it hurts, it might be better to let them go.

Just some random thoughts, esp during this pre-cny and cny period. Oh wells, back to getting more angbaos while we can still act cute!! :D:D